Stop guessing what your
partner wants
Get real-time, actionable insights from your AI relationship coach. Finally understand why they do that thing that drives you crazy—and know exactly what to do about it.
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Did you know there's a 'third person' in your relationship?
Most couples have the same fight over and over. It's not about the dishes or the money. It's about invisible patterns you can't see.
The Third Person
You're not just reacting to your partner—you're reacting to the "ghost" of past relationships, family patterns, and old wounds neither of you can see.
Attachment Wounds
Are you too "needy" or too "distant"? These aren't personality flaws—they're old fears being relived. Understanding this changes everything.
The Cycle
It's the same fight wearing different costumes. Once you see the pattern underneath, you can finally break it.
Different Languages
You're both showing love—but in ways the other can't receive. It's like speaking French to someone who only knows Spanish.
The Invisible Scripts
"They should just know." "If I have to ask, it doesn't count." These hidden beliefs sabotage you both—and you don't even know they're there.
Rey sees these patterns. And helps you see them too.
Rey Sees What You Can't
Reynote isn't just a private journal. It's a connected insight engine. Here's how it works.
You Each Talk to Your Own Rey
You and your partner each have a 100% private, separate AI specialist. You can vent, journal, and work through issues without worry.
Your entries are never shared with your partner. Ever. This is your safe space to be completely honest.
"I'm so frustrated. He never seems to appreciate anything I do for him..."
Rey:
"I hear that. Let's explore what 'appreciation' looks like for you. What would make you feel seen?"
(No private details shared)
The AIs Connect the Dots (Privately)
Here's the magic. Your AI (trained in 6 therapeutic approaches) identifies your core needs and patterns.
It then communicates generalized, anonymous insights to your partner's AI—never your private words. Just patterns like "feeling unseen" or "stressed about work."
You Get Actionable Coaching
Your AI coach gives you specific, actionable advice based on what your partner actually needs—not guesswork.
No more "I wish I had known..." moments. Just clear guidance on what to do next.
Heads up: Your partner's been feeling a bit unseen this week. They might be more sensitive than usual.
Try this tonight: Pick up flowers on the way home. Or better yet, tell them one specific thing you appreciate about them today.
No credit card required • 14-day free trial
Your Personal Team of 6 AI Specialists
Get expert, impartial advice 24/7. Rey is trained in integrative therapy to give you the right perspective at the right time.
The "Deep Dive" System
Finally "debug" your situation. Get scientific, expert perspectives on why this fight is happening and the psychology behind it. Understand the invisible patterns driving your conflicts.
Impartial Mediation
Rey doesn't take sides. It's trained to be objective, helping you find the root cause instead of just blaming each other. See the situation from outside your emotions.
The Insight System
The only relationship tool that helps you understand your partner's real-time needs without violating their privacy. Get the guidance you need, when you need it.
Powered by 6 Therapeutic Approaches
Every relationship is unique. That's why Rey draws from multiple proven therapeutic schools to give you personalized insights.
Psychodynamic
Uncover how past patterns shape your present
Emotionally Focused
Access vulnerable emotions beneath reactions
CBT
Identify thought patterns fueling conflicts
Structural-Strategic
Analyze dynamics and repetitive patterns
Solution-Focused
Highlight strengths and what's working
Narrative
Rewrite limiting beliefs into new stories
Relationship Expertise Without the $200/hr Price Tag
Get professional-level insights for a fraction of the cost
Complete Access for Couples
Both partners included in one subscription
- Unlimited conversations with Rey
- 6 AI therapy specialists analyzing patterns
- Partner perspective coordination
- Real-time actionable insights
- Deep dive "debugging" sessions
- Pattern tracking over time
- Complete privacy for both partners
- Both partners included
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Frequently Asked Questions
Yes, you can use Reynote as an individual. The AI will work with your perspective alone, providing insights and guidance based on your input. If your partner joins later, Rey will then incorporate both perspectives for more comprehensive coaching, but your private entries will remain confidential.
All data in Reynote is encrypted in transit and at rest. While we don't yet have end-to-end encryption, it's on our roadmap. We employ industry-standard security measures, regular security audits, and strict access controls to protect your information. Reynote is hosted on EU servers and is fully GDPR compliant.
No, your partner can never access your private entries, even through prompt engineering attacks. When Rey communicates with you, it doesn't have direct access to your partner's data but works through a specialized Partner Advocate AI that is designed to never disclose private information.
We use APIs from OpenAI and Anthropic, which have strict privacy policies in place. Your data is processed through these APIs but remains protected according to our privacy standards. For complete details on how we handle your data, please review our Privacy Policy.
Reynote offers a 14-day free trial with no credit card required. After that, our subscription is $29 per month for both partners, which includes unlimited conversations, 6 AI therapy specialists, partner coordination, and all features. This is significantly more affordable than traditional couples therapy, which can cost $600-1,200 per month.
You can reach our team at [email protected]. We're happy to answer any questions about Reynote, help with account issues, or receive your feedback on how we can improve the platform.